The Ivory Tower Is Killing You: Why Avoiding Disagreement Is the Most Expensive Habit You Have If you’ve never had your ideas seriously challenged, you don’t have strong ideas. You have untested assumptions. I was having a conversation with a potential client the other day. They’re very successful professionally. Built a thriving private practice. Working with their ideal clients. Making good money. But they’ve hit a ceiling. And they can’t figure out why. During our discussion, I shared some...
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The Superpower Test: How to Know What Makes You Unstoppable Published on March 18, 2026 Your Superpowers Are Hiding Where You Least Expect Growing up, I never knew what it felt like to live where everyone looked the same, thought the same, and lived the same way. I was grew up in Honolulu, the “melting pot of the Pacific, where every face, name, and story came from somewhere different. Then […] The post The Superpower Test: How to Know What Makes You Unstoppable appeared first on Charles...
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Stop Waiting for Permission to Move: Why the Biggest Thing Holding You Back Is Your Own Dependency If you can’t figure out how to make progress alone, you’ll never make progress at all. I see it every day. People giving me the “reasons” why they can’t move forward. “I’m waiting for my business partner to finish his part.” “I can’t start until my boss gives me the go-ahead.” “I need my coworker to do their job before I can do mine.” “I’m waiting for the right time.” And while I’m not saying...
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What It Really Takes to Get Good: A Conversation Between a 21-Year-Old, a 35-Year-Old, and a 60-Year-Old The tools have changed. The opportunities have multiplied. But the price of getting good hasn’t changed one bit. The other day, I got into an interesting discussion at Alana’s with some of the regulars. Guys I see every day but don’t usually chat with because we’re all too busy working on our work. One of them is a 21-year-old young man about to graduate with a Computer Science degree. The...
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What Most People Get Wrong About Remote Work (And Why Your Job Is Your Best Investment) The office isn’t a prison. It’s a training ground. And the people running from it are running from the very thing that would make them better. I’m going to say something unpopular. Remote work, for most people, is not the liberation they think it is. Now before you close this article and write me off as some out-of-touch Gen Xer, and have been "going to work" for over 40 years—I was born on 9/11/65, yeah...
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There Is No Happily Ever After: How Disney Ruined Your Expectations (And Why You Need to Get Over It) The original fairy tales weren’t bedtime stories. They were survival manuals. And we desperately need them back. Disneyland and the Magic Kingdom I’m going to ruin your childhood today. Not to be cruel. But because the fairy tales you grew up with already ruined your adulthood. And nobody told you. Back before I met Amy, I was taking classes at the local community college. One of the more...
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The Hidden-in-Plain-View Secret to Becoming a Badass: Why Sunday Open Mat Changed Everything for Me If you want to up your game, stop training with people at your level. Find the ones who will take you past your line. Open mat Sundays at Meraki I love Sunday open mats at Meraki. And the reason why is the hidden-in-plain-view secret to upping your game at anything. Here’s why. When most people are sleeping in, relaxing, going to the beach or the park—all important things for busy modern life...
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If You’re Not Embarrassed by What You Thought Five Years Ago, You’re Not Growing The smartest thing you can do is love being proved wrong. Because that’s the only way you get smarter. There’s a saying that hits like a slap in the face: “If you’re not embarrassed by what you thought or said five years ago, you’re not growing.” On the one hand, ouch. On the other hand, there’s a deep truth to it. I know it’s been true for me. And I’m not talking about small embarrassments. I’m talking about...
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Why We Have So Few Real Leaders (And Why the World Needs Them Now More Than Ever) Leaders eat last, think long, and stay quiet. That’s why there are so few of them. In man’s history, being the leader was an honored role. Not taken. Given. The tribe didn’t follow the biggest, loudest, or most aggressive person. They followed the one who provided protection and safety. The one who could forge alliances between conflicting factions. The one who put the tribe’s survival above his own comfort....
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