The Best Way to Learn Is by Doing (And Why Most People Avoid It) You can read about it. You can watch videos about it. Or you can actually do it and figure it out. I was a teenager in Honolulu when I first wrote down a quote that changed my life. "By watching, one learns. By listening, one remembers. By practicing, one masters the skill." I was completely lost. Like most kids that age, I had no idea what I was doing or where I was going. But that quote gave me my first real roadmap. Not for...
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The Five Laws of Stupidity (And Why It Will Get You Killed If You Don't Protect Yourself) Stupid people are everywhere. And sometimes they're in charge. On my first night of apprentice classes, our instructor didn't show up. He was in the resting up at home. Want to know why? He'd been working on a scissor lift in a parking structure. He positioned it perpendicular to the slant of the structure, raised it too high, shifted the center of gravity, and the whole thing tipped over. And I remember...
2 days ago • 8 min read
The Most Powerful Skill Nobody Wants to Learn (And Why It Will Set You Free) You already have everything you need. You just don't have everything you want. And that's the problem. There's an old story I carry with me. Not because it's inspiring in the traditional sense. But because it's a hedge against my own ego, my own desires, and the relentless marketing machine that never stops trying to separate me from my money and my peace of mind. It's the story of the Mexican fisherman and the...
3 days ago • 9 min read
It's Not the Size of the Dog in the Fight, It's the Size of the Fight in the Dog (And Why DJ Takes It to Another Level Entirely) When everyone says you're too small, too old, too outmatched—that's when you prove them wrong. I was always the small guy. Growing up. In school. On the job. On the mat. Always the smallest guy in the room. And for a long time, that meant I got bullied. Harassed. Overlooked. Because people saw my size and assumed I wasn't a threat. Wasn't capable. Wasn't worth...
4 days ago • 8 min read
If You're Waiting for Someone to Show You, You've Already Lost The most valuable skill nobody taught you: how to learn without a teacher. Isaac Newton Isaac Newton was twenty-two years old when Cambridge University shut down during the bubonic plague. No classes. No professors. No curriculum. Just a young man, alone in the countryside, with nothing but time and curiosity. And in those two years of isolation, Newton invented calculus, developed the theory of gravity, and laid the groundwork...
5 days ago • 8 min read
The One Skill School Never Taught You (And Why You're Still Struggling Because of It) "Life is hard; it's harder if you're stupid." - John Wayne Life is hard. But life is harder if you're stupid. Here's how to stop being stupid. I was a terrible student. Twelve years of private school. Barely graduated high school with a C- average. I don't know why. And honestly, I've never bothered to figure it out. Maybe the teachers were bad. Maybe I had undiagnosed learning issues. Maybe it was because...
6 days ago • 10 min read
You Can't Lead People from Where You Are. You Have to Meet Them Where They're At. The biggest mistake leaders make? Assuming everyone wants what you want. For years, I made the same mistake. I prided myself on being good. Doing good work. Being willing to do the hard work to get good. And as a foreman on the job and an instructor on the mat, I assumed the people I was leading wanted the same things. They didn't. And my assumption that they did made me a worse leader. Not because I was...
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The AI Job Apocalypse Is Already Here: Stop Crying and Start Building Every industry dies. The question is what you'll do about it. In 1894, New York City was drowning in horse manure. The Great Horse Manure Crisis of NYC in 1894 The city had over 100,000 horses. Each one produced 15 to 35 pounds of manure per day. That's over 2.5 million pounds of horse shit hitting the streets every single day. The manure piled up on sidewalks. It clogged the streets. When it rained, it turned into a toxic...
8 days ago • 7 min read
The Identity That Sets You Free: How to Build a Self That Grows Instead of Stagnates The right identity anchors you without weighing you down We all need a sense of self. Very few, if anyone, are enlightened individuals near self-realization who don't need a sense of identity. The Untethered Soul by Michael Singer For us mere mortals, it's an important foundational step toward self-worth, valuation, and success. Later, once you've built that foundation, you can work on letting it go. But...
9 days ago • 8 min read