Do Less to Get More: The Warrior’s Way of Doing One Thing Well

Years ago, when I was running multi-million-dollar construction sites as a foreman, I had a young journeyman named Joey.

He was sharp. Eager. Wanted to learn everything.

But he had what I used to call “scattered hustle.” He was always on the move—cutting wire here, jumping into a panel over there, asking to help lay conduit, install lights, inspect circuits.

He wanted to impress everyone by doing more. But what he didn’t realize was that he was actually slowing the whole crew down.

One morning, after watching him bounce around for the third time in an hour without completing a single task, I pulled him aside.

I said, “Joey, I don’t need ten half-done things. I need one thing done right. Stop trying to be everywhere. Finish one thing, then ask for the next.”

At first, he looked at me like I’d kicked his dog. Then, a week later, he came back and said something I’ll never forget:

“That thing you said? I think it clicked. I finished one thing today—and I did it right. It felt good.”

That was the beginning of his shift.

And mine.

Because the truth is, I needed that reminder too.

You might, right now.

Most of us aren’t stuck because we’re lazy. We’re stuck because we’re doing too much—and not doing the right things with enough focus.

We’ve confused motion with progress. We’ve confused doing a lot with doing what matters.

The Problem with Doing Too Much

Let’s be real: doing more feels good in the moment.

You feel busy.

Productive.

Like you’re making moves.

But in reality, you’re just spinning your wheels.

You hit the gym—once or twice a week, maybe.
You try five business ideas—none make money.
You talk to ten people about coaching—but never follow up.

You’re everywhere… and nowhere.

This isn’t just a time management problem.

It’s a focus problem.

A clarity problem.

A “trying to win the game without learning the rules” problem.

It’s Western society’s trap: glorifying the goal and ignoring the path.

We chase six-figure incomes, shredded abs, happy marriages—but we ignore the daily habits, disciplines, and reps required to get there.

And even if we reach the goal?

It doesn’t last long. The high fades. Then what?

You're either off chasing the next high… or clinging to a past win that doesn't mean much anymore.

Success without process is empty. And process without purpose is torture.

But a purpose-driven process?

That’s fulfillment.

How Martial Arts Taught Me the Truth

When I started training martial arts seriously, I didn’t try to learn everything.

I couldn’t. You can’t.

I started with the basics—stances, strikes, footwork. One step at a time.

In Hapkido, we didn’t move to the next belt by knowing more. We moved forward by mastering what we already knew.

Same with Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

When I started BJJ, I was overwhelmed. So many moves. So many variations. So many “must-know” techniques.

But it wasn’t until I decided to focus on just one thing—back defense—that I started improving. I drilled it every class. Every roll. Every open mat.

And slowly, I stopped getting tapped from the back.

Then I added escapes. Then attacks. One piece at a time.

I became better—not by doing more—but by doing less, better.

The Warrior’s Way: Less, But Better

You don’t win by scattering your energy.

You win by narrowing your focus.

Here's how that looks in everyday life:

Fitness:​
​Most People: Try 3 programs, burn out
​Warriors: Pick one movement and own it

Learning:​
​Most People: Read 10 books, apply nothing
​Warriors: Read one book deeply, apply every lesson

Business:​
​Most People: Chase trends and side hustles
​Warriors: Master one skill and monetize it

Relationships:​
​Most People: Swipe endlessly, feel empty
​Warriors: Go deep with a few and build trust

BJJ:​
​Most People: Watch 50 YouTube vids, get confused
​Warriors: Drill one escape 100 times, build confidence

Doing less doesn’t mean being lazy. It means being smart.

It means choosing the one thing that matters most and giving it everything you’ve got—until it no longer challenges you.

Then, and only then, you move on.

Why the Process Matters More Than the Prize

Here’s the part no one wants to admit:

The process is boring. It’s unsexy. It doesn’t get likes or applause.

It’s slow. Quiet. Lonely sometimes.

But it’s also the only place where real growth happens.

Society sells you the end result—ripped abs, big bank accounts, relationship goals.

But the truth?

The result is just a milestone. A photo. A screenshot.

It’s not your life.

Your life is the training. The meal prep. The client call. The journaling. The Sunday check-in. The cold shower. The hard conversation. The reps.

If you don’t learn to love the process, you’ll never feel fulfilled—even when you hit your goal.

Because the goal fades. But the process builds who you are.

How to Do Less (The Right Way)

Here’s a simple framework to help you simplify your life and get results:

1. Pick One Thing That Matters​
   What’s the one outcome that, if you made real progress on it, would change everything? Don’t say five things. Say one.
2. Cut the Noise​
   Unfollow accounts. Cancel distractions. Stop switching tasks. Set boundaries. Say no more often. Less input = more output.
3. Set Up Daily Reps​
   Build one habit that supports your goal. Just one. Do it daily. Track it. Protect it like it’s your job. Because it is.
4. Check in Weekly​
   Every week, review what worked, what didn’t, and what to adjust. No judgment. Just clarity. Just learning. Just course-correcting.
5. Respect the Boring Work​
   The boring work is what changes your life. Keep doing it. Especially when you’re tired, distracted, or doubting yourself.

You don't need another productivity hack.

You need to do the damn work. Every day. Less, but better.

What About Balance?

You can still have a life.

This isn’t about becoming a monk or a machine.

It’s about prioritizing what matters, so you can actually enjoy the rest of your life—without guilt, anxiety, or chaos.

You’ll be amazed how much more peace, clarity, and energy you have when you focus on fewer things.

Focus doesn’t restrict you. It frees you.

You’ll sleep better. Work smarter. Train harder. Love deeper.

Because your energy won’t be bleeding out in a hundred directions anymore.

Putting It On the Mat

Let me bring this full circle.

When I first started BJJ, I did what most beginners do.

I went into YouTube tutorial hell.

I watched every video I could. Armbar setups. Triangle finishes. Lapel chokes. Rolling backtakes. You name it.

I thought more knowledge meant better performance.

But on the mat? I was frozen. Overwhelmed. Tapped left and right.

One day, a black belt pulled me aside and said, “Chuck, stop trying to learn everything. Pick one thing. Stick with it.”

So I did.

Back defense. That was it.

I drilled it every class. Every roll. Every video I watched reinforced that one area.

And slowly… I started surviving.

Then escaping.

Then attacking.

Layer by layer, my game improved. And not because I did more. But because I chose less.

That’s how you build anything worthwhile.

So here’s the real takeaway:

Stop chasing everything. Pick your mountain. Climb it with intention. One step at a time.

If you do, you’ll not only reach the summit—you’ll become someone who can climb any mountain.

Because you’ll have built discipline. Clarity. Strength.

You’ll have built yourself.

Not through chaos—but through focus.

And that, my friend, is the warrior’s way.

Call to Action

This week, try this:

• Cut one thing that’s distracting you.
• Pick one thing that deserves your full attention.
• Do it every day for 7 days.

Nothing fancy. No fanfare.

Just real work. Real results.

And if you want to take this seriously, reply to this message and tell me:

• What you cut.
• What you committed to.

I’ll reply to every message.

You’ve got what it takes. Now go prove it—one move at a time.

Let’s go.

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None of it matters if you don’t control your time.

Because even if you want to focus…
Even if you know what matters…
If your schedule is a chaotic mess, if your energy is hijacked by distractions, if your day is ruled by other people’s priorities—

Then you’re going nowhere.

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All taken out by one thing:

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You’ve got the fire. Now direct it with precision.