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Not All Friction Is Bad.And Not All Flow Is Good. Hapkido taught me to move. BJJ taught me to create resistance. Both taught me that the real skill is knowing which one the moment requires. One of the strange things about going from striking arts into grappling is discovering that something you spent years learning can suddenly become the wrong answer. In Hapkido, one of the biggest things I had to learn was how to flow. I am five foot two. I was rarely going to be the biggest or strongest...
The $17 Table and the $100 Table Friday I had one of those little observations that sticks in your head because it exposes something bigger. I was recalling my lunch with my cousin at the Cheesecake Factory. Ray gave me great service. The bill for us was around a hundred dollars. I tipped him twenty. A couple of days later, I was back at my Friday-morning breakfast at Teddy's. Sal gave me great service too. The bill was around seventeen dollars. I gave him five. And then it hit me. Sal’s...
What Changes. What Stays. What Grows. I went to Glendale for lunch with my cousin and somehow came home with three days of things to think about. That was not the plan. I was not conducting research. I was not walking through the Glendale Galleria with a notebook, trying to manufacture leadership lessons. I was killing time before lunch. That is usually how the useful stuff finds you. You are doing something ordinary. Then something catches your attention. You notice that the place that once...