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When Good Enough Is Good Enough: The Perfectionist's Paradox When I was single, life was simple. I worked and worked out— going to the job site every morning, plying my skill as an electrician and working toward being a skilled craftsman (not just a journeyman). Then after work, after a quick shit, shower and shave, and a quick bite, I'd head to the dojang to get there around 3pm and have the place to myself to work on strikes (against the heavy bag and makiwara), techniques and breakfalls....
Stop Saying "Sorry": Why Apologies Without Action Are BS I learned this the hard way on the construction site and on the mat and I'm hoping by sharing this, you will avoid the pain I went through. People use the word "sorry" as a way to absolve themselves of responsibility. Sorry doesn't mean anything unless it creates a new set of behaviors and eliminates the need to apologize for the same error again. Do you know people who keep saying sorry for the same stuff? It's because you've given...
Choosing the Right Game: Why Finite Thinking Destroys Infinite Relationships Not too long ago, I wrote about the differences between jutsu, sport, and do martial arts schools and how you need to find the right school for your needs and goals at your stage of life—athlete, warrior, leader, sage. Here's the framework: Jutsu schools focus on combat effectiveness—techniques designed to incapacitate or kill. The goal is survival. The mindset is life or death. Win or die. Sport schools focus on...