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Learn to Laugh While You’re Getting Your Ass Kicked Sometimes the difference between breaking and getting stronger is what you do after everything goes wrong. You’ve had one of those weeks. You make a mistake. Then another. You fix one problem and accidentally create two more. Something that should’ve taken twenty minutes eats three hours. And just when you think you’ve finally got things under control, life punches you in the mouth. Again. What do you do with that? You can get angry. You can...
Don’t Be Equal: Learn to Fight Your Fight "Everything else being equal, the bigger guy will generally win in a fight." So don’t be equal. That’s a lesson I’ve understood intellectually for decades. Brazilian jiu-jitsu keeps finding new ways to beat it into me. Literally. Last Saturday I was training with a blue belt, Hudson, a six-foot-four, 230 pounds, and thirty years old young man. I’m five-foot-two, about 120 pounds, and pushing sixty. Do the math. It reminded me of being a kid on the...
When You Can’t Train, Train Differently There have been a lot of familiar faces missing from the mats lately. Some guys are dealing with new injuries. Others are recovering from old ones that came back to haunt them. Back problems, cracked or bruised ribs, and the usual collection of aches and pains that come with doing something as physically demanding as Brazilian jiu-jitsu. Some have been gone for weeks. Some might be out for months. And when they finally come back, there’s that familiar...